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Abbi Nye's avatar

This is so good. Thank you.

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Marissa Franks Burt's avatar

You are very welcome! ❤️

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Crystal Berdion's avatar

It honestly felt like you were telling my story, that you were speaking right to my soul. There’s a lot of things I’ve had to re-learn for myself, to work at making my faith genuinely my own (working out my salvation so to speak). As a parent I’ve had to let go of the mindset of “never being wrong or making mistakes” because ultimately I serve a God who is perfect and shows us the way to go. Honestly, that alone has been the most freeing, it’s such a relief to know that it’s not all up to us.

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Marissa Franks Burt's avatar

Thank you for sharing some of your experience! Freedom tastes good, doesn’t it?

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Caitlin L.'s avatar

Beautifully written. How freeing for the parent, who might believe the spiritual health of their child rests solely on their shoulders. 🙏🏼

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Marissa Franks Burt's avatar

Thank you for reading! And YES! What a heavy yoke to imagine it’s up to parents.

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Rebecca W's avatar

Amen to all of it. Anything about this topic going in your book?

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Marissa Franks Burt's avatar

Thank you for reading! Yes! It does show up a bit in Part 3, especially in responses we have from our interview surveys of people reflecting back .

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Rebecca W's avatar

Glad to hear that. Looking fwd to this book!

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Elisa S. Johnston's avatar

This is an excellent way of expressing something happening. These parallels make a lot of sense, and I love how you pointed out how the Shepherd works...even for those deconstructing. Thank you!

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